ROLE OF SOCIAL MEDIA OVER MOST IMPORTANT DECISION OF THE MATRIMONIAL 

My dear lovely people out there. Hope you are all well and doing great in your life! 

LIFE BECOME MORE DISTRACTING AND WE ALL ARE BECOME FAST REACTING OVER ALL THE INCIDENTS HAPPENED IN LIFE. 

Why is it so important now a days to check the social feed while dealing the most important decision of the Matrimonial. While we know that social feeds are always giving us an update of the all goody things and not all time real nature of the person. Updates make us easily know about the activities of the person but the real nature would not be communicated. 

SENT BACK TO PAST 

I would like to narrate the one of the story about my real member has checked the social media of the future partner before they will go for the third round of the matrimonial meeting. While checking her Snaps a groom found her to be ugly not so presentable in her snaps of the 2012. He has some points in his mind about her appearance and with this context he has some confusion in mind. This incident of checking the feeds on Social Media leads a prospective client to shift his present appearance of the bride to past which leads to confusion. 

JUDGEMENTAL TO REALITY 

Human psychology always to be judgemental and mostly listen the instinct as per our own experiences and learnings and than we will make decision in pursuit. But while checking something on Media specially when we do not have information about the other personality in full we automatically become judgemental and we treat a matter without any bias. Because we understood what we have seen and we have experienced in the past. But in general when you take things without any perception things will be easy and get clear instinct to take decision. 

HOW DO WE TAKE DECISION WITH THE SOCIAL MEDIA

  • Take Social media as reference rather than firm judgment 
  • Try to learn about a person in person 
  • Overcome with the thoughts and illusions after reviewing 
  • Try to listen to your guts and intuitions 
  • Never be judgemental